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28.08.26 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Decorating Project – Symbols and Pattern

Space and Clutter + Uncategorized

  Everyone deserves beauty. It heals us and brings us the Energy for a fulfilled life. In Decorating Project-Symbols and Patterns, a former math teacher, MC, a middle-aged disabled man, asked me to help him decorate his. Keeping up a neat appearance  was difficult for him. Furthermore, health issues were draining MC’s assets, putting beauty…

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30.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Collecting Objects – The Purpose of Things

Space and Clutter

When my young niece visited me years ago, we would engage in “clawing,” one of our favorite yearly sports. We would visit the arcades, K-Mart, and supermarkets to try our hand at the claw machines filled with stuffed animals, balls, and assorted toys. Koreans call it “tangjinjaem,” spending small amounts of money to have fun…

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31.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Small Spaces – Decorating from a Metaphysical Approach

Design Principles + Problem-Solving + Small Apartment Living + Space and Clutter

    Despite this age old wisdom, small spaces are not only difficult to live in but also to live with. When my future husband bought a NYC apartment in the late ‘80s, he thought he would never marry again. The apartment was small for a man living alone, but little did he know, I’d…

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Martha Stewart Magazines stacked on a dresser.

30.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Magazine Clutter…..What Should I Do with all My “Marthas?”

Problem-Solving + Space and Clutter

  I give lots and lots of advice about decorating but need some myself now. I simply don’t know what to do with magazine clutter, specifically all my Martha Stewart Living magazines. Our more than twenty years’ worth are emitting an explosion of magazine clutter.   As a designer, I need them. To me, Martha…

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29.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Unavoidable Plastic – How to Minimize Its Aesthetic Effects

Design Principles + Problem-Solving + Space and Clutter

Unavoidable Plastic I hate that we must live with unavoidable plastic. I hate the look of plastic and hate being near it. Through the  metaphysics behind decorating, I concentrate not only on the subtle energy generated through seeing objects.  I also look at  the relationships with the objects around us. To me, plastic is not…

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31.03.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Clutter Emergency? – How to Cope with the Stress

Problem-Solving + Space and Clutter

All of us have dealt with clutter. Sometimes, however,  we can find ourselves in a paralyzing situation, I call that a clutter emergency, This blog is a how-to solution. It can happen to anyone, no matter how neat our living quarters. At one time or another, any one of us could be at risk. We…

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I was raised by my beloved Polish grandmother who didn’t speak English. My name is Ruth but in Polish it is ‘Ruta.’ Occasionally friends call me that today. The name conveys her warmth and love.

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