• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Secondary Navigation Social Media Icons

    • Facebook

Ruta's Rules

Towards a Metaphysical Approach to Decorating

  • Ruta’s Book
  • About Ruta

Design Principles

17.02.24 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Understanding the Golden Proportion

Design Principles + Uncategorized

  Decorating for energy involves utilizing the mathematics of nature. I generally just use the blueprint of a circle or an ellipse which, despite its simplicity, is enough to bring Energy into an environment. Sometimes you might hear of the Golden Proportion as an example of the mathematics of nature. It is good to know…

Read More

15.06.21 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 2 Comments

The Mathematics of Nature in the Most Unusual Places

Design Principles

I love to give paintings as gifts for birthdays and special occasions, especially impressionist floral paintings for wedding gifts. The mathematics of nature make up a major part of their design. I have an unfortunate attachment to these paintings, though, particularly the good ones. Still, the looming wedding or birthday dates force me to give…

Read More
Candle with Pink Rose

29.07.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Beauty in the Age of Extreme Politics

Design Principles

Beauty is a powerful tool, especially  in the age of extreme politics. One of my favorite books is Joan Kron’s Home Psych. Every page is a gem on the juxtaposition between decorating and all other aspects of life. She shares her experiences as a decorating writer who often finds herself in a defensive position with…

Read More
Sacred Geometry on multicolored swirling background

01.02.19 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 2 Comments

Let Your Eyes Have a Pleasurable Dance

Design Principles

In metaphysical design, the goal is to elevate us by receiving  energy and harmony in our environment.  One way to do this is to impose a geometric scaffolding in our designs. Upon walking into a room you should let your eyes have a pleasurable dance. A friend and prospective client recently sought my advice about…

Read More
children by the river

01.11.18 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

The Spirit of a House and the Angle of the Meander

Design Principles

Can one feeI the spirit of a house? Can a house be alive with feelings, empathy and caring?  think so. Over 25 years ago we bought a house in the country that seemed to do just that. Our feelings are echoed by Mark Twain”s most beautiful words when he describes his house: “To us, our…

Read More
A smiling toy robot

01.01.16 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

A Smile in Every Room – Decorating for Joy

Design Principles + Problem-Solving

I try to approach interior decorating with a sense of intellectual rigor. My rules are strict and relentless. In this, my first blog, I intend to discuss where those rules come from, why they are important, and how we can beautify and uplift our own spaces by applying them. But, along with all those lofty…

Read More

31.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

Dish Lessons – “Using the Good China”

Color + Design Principles

  Starting a collection of objects, like dishes, can be considered materialistic but I find there are also spiritual advantages. Collecting can tell us a lot about our psychological and spiritual growth. I call them my dish lessons. Once shopping in a California antique mall, I stumbled upon an Art Deco cream and sugar set….

Read More

31.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Small Spaces – Decorating from a Metaphysical Approach

Design Principles + Problem-Solving + Small Apartment Living + Space and Clutter

    Despite this age old wisdom, small spaces are not only difficult to live in but also to live with. When my future husband bought a NYC apartment in the late ‘80s, he thought he would never marry again. The apartment was small for a man living alone, but little did he know, I’d…

Read More

29.12.15 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | No Comments

Unavoidable Plastic – How to Minimize Its Aesthetic Effects

Design Principles + Problem-Solving + Space and Clutter

Unavoidable Plastic I hate that we must live with unavoidable plastic. I hate the look of plastic and hate being near it. Through the  metaphysics behind decorating, I concentrate not only on the subtle energy generated through seeing objects.  I also look at  the relationships with the objects around us. To me, plastic is not…

Read More
drafting table with blueprints, paint swatches and paint cans

05.08.14 | Ruth Dec-Friedman | 1 Comment

What Should Be Beautiful

Decorating Public Space + Design Principles + Problem-Solving

I wonder how often people choose what should be beautiful and what should be ignored. What is the impetus to make things beautiful? I hated taking the drafting class I needed for interior design. It was the most unforgiving medium I had worked with. If I started a blueprint a sixteenth of an inch off…

Read More

Primary Sidebar

Good design energizes. Photo of Author, Rutas-Rules, Ruth Dec-Friedman
Ruta of rutas-rules.com

I was raised by my beloved Polish grandmother who didn’t speak English. My name is Ruth but in Polish it is ‘Ruta.” Occasionally friends call me that today. The name conveys her warmth and love.

Read more on my About page.

 

Ruta’s Book: A Metaphysical Approach to Decorating

Ruta's Book: A Metaphysical Approach to Decorating

Subscribe to My Blog

Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email.

Join 11 other subscribers

Recent Posts

  • Signs of the Beautiful -Celebrating Hope
  • Understanding the Golden Proportion
  • Beauty Heals in Troubled Times – Signs of the Beautiful
  • The Mathematics of Nature in the Most Unusual Places
  • Collecting Objects – The Purpose of Things
  • Beauty in the Age of Extreme Politics
  • Making ‘Curb Your Dog’ Signs’ – Signs of the Beautiful
  • Curb Your Dog Signs – Signs of the Beautiful
  • Let Your Eyes Have a Pleasurable Dance
  • School Vandalism – The Bureaucratic Community
  • When We Do Not “See” – An Invisible Line in the Sand
  • The Spirit of a House and the Angle of the Meander
  • A Smile in Every Room – Decorating for Joy
  • Dish Lessons – “Using the Good China”
  • Small Spaces – Decorating from a Metaphysical Approach
  • Magazine Clutter…..What Should I Do with all My “Marthas?”
  • Unavoidable Plastic – How to Minimize Its Aesthetic Effects
  • Clutter Emergency? – How to Cope with the Stress
  • What Should Be Beautiful

Copyright © 2025 · rutas-rules.com

Hazel Theme by Code + Coconut